Private Marriage Counseling Specialists in Santa Ana

Rekindle Your Marriage

Address what isn’t working and rediscover the joys of union.

"No hope for reconciliation, whatsoever."

It’s a heart-wrenching yet common situation…

Things have been going down-hill for so long.

Whenever there is progress, something comes crashing out of nowhere and tears it all down.

Worse than before.

Slowly and surely, the foundations of your relationship erode away until it’s unrecognizable.

If only things could return to that moment, when you confidently gazed into each others eyes and smiled, “I do.”

The Invisible Culprit

The following symptoms are common reasons that couples seek out marriage counseling. Perhaps you see one or a few of them within your own relationship:

  • Infidelity
  • Financial troubles
  • Traumatic events
  • Sexual difficulties
  • Addictive behaviors
  • Feeling numb or shut off
  • Differences in parenting styles
  • Differences in values and cultures

While these are serious issues, we believe that there is a deeper culprit at hand that must be addressed.

What caused the infidelity? Where is the sexual difficulty coming from?

Those are the invisible culprits we address.

Yes, it’s less pleasant and more difficult than what you might get somewhere else.

But that’s what opens us to real, lasting change.

This is not your average marriage counseling approach.

Let’s face it. A quick-fix band-aid advice or some positive motivational pep-talk is not what you nor your partner needs.

We’re not interested in how happy-go-lucky you and your partner feel after our sessions. And we’re not interested in taking sides or judging who is right and who is wrong.

(At the end of the day, do those things really matter if nothing fundamental has changed?)

You’re here, reading this, because something deep down needs to change.

Our approach is one of digging down, pulling out the roots, and confronting the difficult things that are plaguing your union. Our results are based on your relationship’s lasting harmony and lasting love.

We get it.
It’s tough and it’s scary.
But, your marriage matters.
And that’s exactly why it must be done.

But don’t worry… We’re here to guide you every step of the way.

Don't just save your marriage. Thrive in it.

Our initial consultation, you’ll receive insights from over a decade of experience. These insights have saved marriages on the brink of disaster and divorce.

Custody battles, loneliness, financial burdens, and losing your partner can be incredibly painful and yet avoided.

During the consultation, you will see a glimpse of what your marriage can look like. It will take some work however, if your Marriage Matters, you will do the work. 

You can transform your marriage!

Set yourself up to win!

Most people take more time plaining their vacations or get-aways,  than they do planning the success of their marriage. 

Let’s face it, marriage takes work.  But, it does not have to feel like you’re trying to walk a tight rope every time you have a conversation.  

Learn the communication skills to navigate through this mystery called “Marriage.”                                                                                  Everyone has a way of feeling loved.  Luis calls this process “Learning how to fill your Love Cup.”  

Before all of this takes place, you must first learn what got you here in the first place.

  • Identify  what is causing the pain.
  • Learn what to do next.
  • Obtain practical tools so the problem does not recycle into your relationship again.

Only after dealing with the pain, can you move to the healing.  

Can your marriage be saved?

In our experience, we work with two types of marriages.

Marriages where one or both partners want to make it work (and are committed to do whatever it takes to create the relationship they want).

And marriages where neither party truly wants to make it work.

We can only help those who are willing to do the work!

But if you are willing to do what it takes to:

  • Save your relationship
  • Keep your family together
  • Reexperience the joys of your marriage
  • Love unconditionally,  thrive and trust again

Then click the button below and get in touch with us right now.